How Can You Tell When Your Anger
Is Becoming A Problem For You or Others?
by Dave
Decker M.A.
- When the intensity of your anger is too great
- When you get angry too frequently
- When your anger drags on and lasts too long and you
have difficulty letting it go
- When your anger triggers fear and intimidation in others,
creates emotional distance with those around you, and
disrupts your relationships
- When your anger interferes with getting your work done
or creates problems for you on the job
- When your anger restricts your ability to have fun,
to be spontaneous and playful, and to relax
- When your anger begins to create physical symptoms
for you ...e.g. you get headaches, chest pain, stomach
problems, or back aches
- When your anger leads to emotional consequences
...e.g. you feel guilty, remorseful, and embarassed about
what you have said or done when you were angry
- When your anger leads to throwing, hitting, or breaking
things
- When your anger leads to hurting other people emotionally,
verbally, sexually, or physically
- When your anger leads to involvement with the police
or to legal consequences
...e.g. restraining orders, disorderly conduct or assault
charges
© 1987 David J. Decker, MA, LP
Phone: 612-725-8402 or 651-646-4325 - www.ANGEResources.com
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